Important Tips for How to Make Love to a Woman

So now you may be wondering, what the heck does a woman want? Here are some of the most important aspects for the woman. As you'll see, learning how to make love to a woman involves several factors that have nothing to do with your penis.

• Take your time. This is an essential key in how to make love to a woman. It takes a woman a good amount of time to become aroused enough to climax. She cherishes a lover who takes his time and savors her entire body.


• Meet her emotional needs. For sex to be at it's best a woman needs to be connected emotionally to her lover. How you treat your woman outside the bedroom will have a great impact on how she responds to you in the bedroom.


• Make her feel important, special, valued and desired. Be genuinely interested in who she is as a person and her life. Express your feelings to her about how you feel about her emotionally and sexually or how she makes you feel.


• Don't rush to the genitals. A woman is turned off by a man who heads straight for her genitals. She wants to be touched and kissed all over. Kiss her, hold her, cuddle with her. Learn where her other erogenous zones are. Touch her thighs, fingers, arms. Nibble on her ears and neck. Massage her back and shoulders. Tease and entice. Build anticipation.


• Make love to her body, mind and soul. The man who can engage her physically, emotionally and spiritually all at the same time will truly be a magnificent lover in her eyes. He will be able to take her to amazing heights of orgasmic pleasure.


• Become an expert oral lover. Since the woman doesn't reach orgasm through intercourse very often, oral sex is often her preferred and favorite sexual activity.


• Engage in post coital moments or aka afterplay. This is very important for the woman, because it impacts how she will respond to you in the future and how she will feel about the sexual experience afterwards. Do not hop out of bed immediately after the lovemaking. Take time for closeness afterwards in the form of holding, touching, caressing or sharing of intimate thoughts.

It's also important for men to understand that there is not a clean cut road map for how to make love to a woman. Although most women share some common ground in what satisfies them as mentioned above, every woman is different. If you were to make love with five different women next week, each one of them would have different needs in regard to where they need touched, how they need touched, what makes them hot and wet, etc. etc. The most essential key for how to make love to a woman is to get to know your particular woman's specific needs as completely as possible.