7 Romantic Gestures That Make Women Swoon (Guys, Take Note!)

1. Make her something. Write her a poem or a song, draw her a picture or a card, frame a photo — that you took! — of the two of you together, cook her a special dinner with all of her favorite dishes; whatever it is, if you use your hands, she will melt.
2. Demonstrate you think about her when she’s not around. This can be demonstrated in the most minor of ways. I love it when my boyfriend sends me links to stories that he knows will interest me — especially when they’re about topics that don’t interest him. For example, he once sent me a link to an article about all of the “Star Trek” TV series streaming on Netflix. I swooned — and then got really psyched about watching a few episodes of “The Next Generation.”
3. Be supportive. A romantic/sexual connection is awesome and important, but I think being sincerely interested in who your S.O. is as an autonomous human being is essential to making a relationship last. Sure, it feels good knowing your boyfriend thinks you’re hot, but doesn’t it feel even better when he makes it clear he thinks you’re smart and fascinating? I swear, I glow from head to toe when someone I’m with makes it clear they’re interested in what I do, what my opinions are, and where my passions lie, and is supportive of those things.
4. Clean up. Oh, fellas. Doing the dishes — so simple, so meaningful, so sexy.
5. Make important introductions. Looking back on my past relationships, the guys who treated me the best were amped for me to meet their folks. The ones who didn’t went out of their way to avoid an introduction. Our parents bring out the best and worst in us — wanting her to experience that dynamic in the flesh shows trust and vulnerability and that is romantic. And as the commenter below explains, if you’re past that point in the relationship, wanting to bring both of your families together takes the trust up a notch.
6. Take care of her. Us ladies, we’re not delicate flowers that need to be handled with kid gloves. But it sure is nice to be nurtured sometimes.
7. Surprise her! Seriously, it doesn’t need to be a trip to Tahiti — this isn’t about spending loads of dough or putting hours into planning something flashy. It’s about being struck with the sudden desire to make her feel special in a way that you know would resonate with her. That is priceless.

How to Keep your Girlfriend Happy?

Adversities are a part and parcel of every individual's life. Here's how you can take control of the situation while still being calm and proving to be a hero to your loved one.

1. Control the situation

For especially those who have girlfriendís with overpowering, dominating behavior patterns, its time to take the situation under control. Boost your morale. You need to build up your self-belief and confidence. Try and make it appear as if you can easily cope up with it.

2. Be Positive, Confident and Optimistic.

You have to be confident to deal with the adversity. Work towards defeating all your hardships. Think about how strong you are, tougher situations that you have dealt with and share them with your partner. Thinking about the good that this predicament is teaching you also boosts your morale.

3. Make your Partner is Comfortable.

Your partnerís ease and comfort should be your foremost priority. You may offer her your jacket when its cold, or your lap as a pillow. Donít let her or your imaginations take over reality. Pacify the fears by talking them out, sharing them with your partner. Soothe them away. Give her confidence and cheer her to fight these situations and weave dreams and hopes for a brighter future.

4. Never Take Credit.

Once you both are out of the long drawn dilemma, reflect on what you both have learnt from it. Be happy to know that you are her hero, never ay it though!

How to resolve issues with your partner after an Argument

There is virtually no relationship in the world which doesn’t suffer from the woes of occasional arguments and conflicts.

 The key to being happy in a relationship does not lie in trying to avoid the arguments and bottling up the emotions. It lies in expressing the emotions felt and if there are heated arguments over certain issues, make sure you sit down and resolve these issues calmly, after the storm is over.

When you are intent upon making up after an argument, then there is nothing that can stop you. Many couples do it by simple letting the thing pass; many do it with a simple kiss and getting absorbed in the throes of passion while a majority of them prefer to talk it out completely to prevent any further trouble over the same reasons.

Here are a few tips that will help you tread safely on the troubled waters and patch up safely and effectively with your partner after an argument:

Get to the core of the issue

More often than not, when you try to analyse the reason behind the fight, you are hit with the sudden realization that you are actually fighting for no reason at all; or there are other forces that are driving you to act this way. These forces could be one of the following:

Low self-confidence: More often than not, you do think yourself deserving of the love being showered on you and to enforce your need for assurances, you end up creating a big whole fuss about absolutely nothing.

Estrangement:Often the fear of losing your partner may force you to act irrationally.

You may also feel as if not being cared for, or perhaps used by your partner for achieving some selfish ends.

Say it succinctly and precisely

Do not spin tales or word webs. Just express your truest feelings in the most precise way. An honest confession can win over the most ruthless heart.

Assume Responsibility

If you think you have been at fault, even if only for the 10% part of the argument, own your mistake, assume responsibility for the wrongs that you have done. Don’t hold your partner or yourself as to being gravely at fault and go on mentioning it at length; just apologize like a gentleman or a lady. You will be surprised to discover how this small gesture opens up new avenues for dialogue and goes a long way in initiating the peace making process.

It is more than about being right

Want an argument to end quickly? Then get over the need of being right…relinquishing your standpoint for the greater cause of ensuring harmony in your relationship is not too heavy a price to pay, especially if it’s a deadlock situation.

Give time, be patient

Different people take different amount of time in adjusting to a view point or coming to terms with the new scheme of things. Let your partner take his or her own time; do not try to control their learning process. Trying to do so is only futile and would lead to higher degree of frustration. Even when you are expecting an apology and it doesn’t seem to be coming, do not stress upon it like it is the end of the world. Expecting an apology means you are ready to forgive, so do it anyway, even if the person asks for it or not.

Appreciation & Recognition

There are more reasons to keep you together in the relationship than you are probably aware of. A good way to get over the issue of rightness in an argument is to think of all the good things about your partner and appreciating them for that.

A new beginning, new promises

Learn from these arguments and reach a consensus over some issues which you will not repeat in future, such as calling each other names or resorting to violence. 

5 Ways to Avoid a Couples Fight

Have you ever thought, “I love my husband, but I don’t really like him.” Or, “I used to be in love with my partner, but not anymore.” I see so many couples in my mediation practice who say they are desperate for a strategy to reinvigorate their sedating relationship. What I discovered in time was that most couples want to stay together, but they lack the communication skills to keep the mutual respect, appreciation, compassion and intimacy alive. Not only did they take each other for granted, they also suffered from repetitive bad fights that left lingering resentment and anger. My discovery about the cause of relationship dissatisfaction was exciting because it meant that if I helped empower people with better verbal skills, they could single-handedly improve their relationship in one day.
Based on what I teach people and what works in mediation, I wrote Fight Less, Love More: 5-Minute Conversations to Change Your Relationship without Blowing Up or Giving In (Rodale, Oct. 2010) to help couples keep their connection strong with 5-minute conversations and simple comments that show you care.
You don’t need lots of quality time together to improve your relationship. In fact, you and your partner don’t need to talk more, you simply need to learn to talk better. Below are 5 tips you can put forth today that will help give you the love, cooperation and companionship you’re looking for from your partner.


1. Pick the Right Battles. Before you start criticizing your mate for doing something like forgetting to take an umbrella to work when rain is predicted, ask yourself the wise question, “Does this affect me?” In this case, it doesn’t. He arrived home all wet, not you. So don’t pick that battle. Rather than using a “fight line” like, “I told you to bring an umbrella. Why don’t you listen to me?” (which leads to a defensive response), use a compassionate love line like, “You’re all wet. Let me get you a towel.”

2. Give a Character Compliment. In researching my book we did an on-line survey and found some results that could help us all have better marriages. Not only do people like being complimented once a day, they like receiving a special kind of compliment. When we asked people “would you rather your mate compliment you for being kind or good-looking?” the result was that 84 percent of people said “kind.” The lesson: find daily opportunities to compliment your mate’s character, rather than his tie or her sweater. And don’t be afraid to share this research study with your mate and ask him if he’ll join you in the daily compliment challenge.

3. Avoid Premature Arguments. My clients are smart people, who often have dumb arguments. One type of these unnecessary battles is so common that it threatens every relationship (including my own). I call it the “premature argument.” Look out for those times when you and your mate get in a brawl about a decision that doesn’t need to be made for weeks, months or years, such as whether to move to a house or apartment in a couple years, where to go for Mother’s Day … next year, where to go for summer vacation, or even when to schedule a certain doctor appointment when you don’t have the facts yet on the doctor’s availability (my parents nearly had that premature argument yesterday!). When you realize you’re arguing about something prematurely, stop yourself and say, “Hey, we don’t need to have this argument yet. Let’s hold off until time passes and we have more information.”

4. Show You Care: A little bit of remembering shows a lot of love. If you know your mate has an important meeting, appointment, etc., be sure to follow up with your partner. Call, email, text or ask in person, “How did it go?” This sends a clear message: I care about you. Try to do this on a weekly, if not daily, basis. And if you don’t have anything to follow up on, that’s a sign that you don’t know what is going on in your mate’s days. So start asking, listening and remembering.

5. Disagree Without Being Disagreeable: An easy way to start a fight is to say, “You’re wrong” or “that’s a stupid idea!” Meanwhile, a perfect way make the same point in a friendly way is to use a wise question. In the moment that you know you disagree with your mate, ask, “Why do you think that?” Listen to the answer first, and then feel free to disagree. By holding your tongue and listening first (even if it’s only for a minute), you show respect. The result: Your mate is willing to listen to your point of view. That’s how to turn a conflict into a conversation.

The values we hold dear to us – respect, appreciation, compassion, loyalty and companionship – are fostered or destroyed every day by our word choices and actions. If you follow these 5 tips, you should see a quick improvement in your relationship. The wiser your words, the better your relationship.
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True Romance

As women, we are constantly spoon-fed ideas of what romance ought to be. We buy into candlelight dinners, red roses, dark chocolates, opening doors, sunsets from a quiet rooftop and Valentine's Day. Equally, men are often trained or pressured into performing these expected tasks to qualify as romantics.
I'm old-fashioned, I like chivalry, I like attention and I like being spoilt. But any man who thinks this is all it takes to woo a woman, be warned. This comes with an expiry date.
When a relationship is new, women enjoy these little gestures and there is absolutely nothing wrong with unconditional chivalry. But a few years into the relationship, she might actually find a romantic dinner in a swish restaurant sipping champagne, making small talk and wearing a tight, uncomfortable dress whilst a huge market profits from her emotional expectations not really that romantic. At the risk of sounding like a middle-aged feminist cynic, I think roses and candles are the nursery school of romantics.
What is romance for a woman? It is when your loved one is able to keep the "spark" lit even as the years go by. We live in a world where almost every man has been conditioned into looking at a woman from the outside, to judge her appearance, and her "lady-like" behaviour, so it's only natural that we women want to be seen from the inside. A woman wants the freedom to express her darkest feelings and the most unconventional thoughts.
What men often do not realise is that women can also have days when they want to physically break something, pick their noses, eat a gigantic steak or roam around the house in a torn T-shirt. We have days when we use bad language in frustration, when we are insensitive to men's needs, when we need to be left alone.
The importance of romance for a woman is to feel just as accepted, just as loved when she is behaving unconventionally. This romance requires a little more perception and depth than chivalry because it means men taking a step back when we are angry. Sometimes romance is as simple as a man staying by our side when the whole world sits in judgment. Other times, romance means physically letting us leave and sort out problems by ourselves. To do this, a man requires immense self-control because he needs to let go of that instinctive male tendency to protect, provide and possess his woman. He needs to let go of that male ego we women keep complaining about.
When a man trusts a woman completely, lets her go and waits patiently for her to return, without questioning her loyalty, it is true romance. And it's not something you learn from a glossy magazine. Or buy at a mall.

6 habits that keep couples happy

How is it that some couples seem to stay starry-eyed for years, and others let their sizzle, um… fizzle? Well, it appears that successful chemistry sustainers develop healthy coupled-up habits which allow them to keep their love alive and kicking. “People can have a lot of trouble staying close,” says Joyce Catlett, coauthor of Fear of Intimacy. “They get into relationships and think they’re automatically going to know how to make everything work, but figuring out how to stay passionate together is really a skill.” Luckily, they’re skills that anyone can learn. Here are six habits that you’d do well to adopt if you want your date to become your happily-ever-after mate.

Habit #1: Catch romance where you can
“You may start out with chocolates and roses, but the likelihood of being able to sustain that feeling with a busy schedule is pretty unlikely,” says JoAnn Magdoff, Ph.D., a New York City-based psychotherapist. Successful couples learn to build a bubble of romance at unexpected times — during their daily commute, while doing laundry — and in low-impact ways, whether that be a long, lingering smooch or just holding hands. In other words, the next time you hear yourself say “Oh, look, we’ve got 15 minutes to ourselves,” make use of it — that’s what keeps the spark alive.

Habit #2: Fight fair
Believe it or not, learning to fight right is an important part of keeping chemistry alive. Why? Because if you are constantly cutting each other down, it’s hard to feel mutually amorous. “There is no such thing as a relationship without disagreements,” says David Wygant, author of Always Talk to Strangers. “But if there is an understanding that your partner can come to you with any dissension without being attacked, you will have an honest relationship comprised of ‘open discussions’ rather than ‘fights.’” Debra Tobias, who has been happily married for almost 10 years to her husband Steve, agrees. “Steve and I have learned to listen to each other when we’re upset and we admit when we’re wrong,” says Tobias. “We also make a rule of never, ever saying ‘I told you so’ no matter how much we might want to say it.” The result is that their chemistry doesn’t wane because they never let their arguments escalate to a personal level. Focus on the issue at hand instead of throwing verbal punches.

Habit #3: Nurture your separate selves
Going off to your book club when your sweetie’s out golfing isn’t a sign you two are drifting apart. On the contrary, developing individual interests allows for a richer life as a couple. By taking little “couple breaks,” you gain a greater appreciation of the gifts your partner brings to your life and you have more to offer as well. “It’s very attractive to be independent sometimes,” says Magdoff. “You feel better about yourself and you’re less demanding of your partner when you’re together.” After all, taking some personal responsibility for your own well-being relieves the other person of the pressure to “provide” happiness — so go ahead and nurture some solo adventures. That’ll also keep each of you stocked with plenty of adventures to chat about, which also builds your bond.

Habit #4: Take on a project together
Separate interests aside, exploring new ground together is also important since it strengthens your history of shared experiences. Jo Smith and her husband of four years found this out when they committed to running their first 10K together. “We were training together, carbo-loading and hydrating together, running the race together and ultimately succeeding together when we both finished,” says Smith. “It brought a whole new level of closeness to our relationship because of the time we spent learning as a duo during this endeavor.” Couples who take on adventures together get a sense of daring and accomplishment that can really kick up their chemistry!

Habit #5: Don’t let your physical attraction for each other dwindle
No doubt about it, couples with healthy libidos have no problem keeping chemistry cooking. (That whole “couples’ desire for each other naturally fades over time” excuse? Not true.) The trick to injecting more electricity into a lagging love life has to do with trying new things — sure, it can be easy to work on tricks and techniques when you first meet, but people’s preferences can, and do, change over time. “In interviewing people on the topic of physical intimacy, it became clear that the couples who were the most satisfied were also the ones who were open to some experimentation,” says Catlett. This isn’t to say you suddenly have to become a wild thing, though. Even returning to the basics you may have abandoned along the way — lots of kissing and eye contact, for example — can make the usual encounter feel very different… and much more intimate.

Habit #6: Engage in some mutual admiration
In order for chemistry between two people to thrive, there needs to be mutual respect. “It’s about putting yourself in the role of an observer of your partner,” says Magdoff. “Watch them ‘perform’ — I’m not saying they need to do a song and dance for you — just pay attention to the everyday things that remind you why you find them so special.” Then, make it a point to lob compliments their way. “A good exercise is to occasionally create a mental list of the qualities you dig about your partner, and to occasionally share one of your thoughts with the one you love,” says Wygant. Because the reality is, you’ll always want to be around someone who thinks you’re fantastic.

Kimberly Dawn Neumann is a New York City-based writer whose work has appeared in such publications as Cosmopolitan, Redbook, and Fitness.

6 foods to help you have great sex

They say sex is a great stressbuster. They are right because love-making has been found to relive the pressure of the burdens of life, ease stress, soothe chronic aches and pains, spur creativity and rev up the energy levels.

Experts say that anything that makes you feel good, alive and physically excited will make you feel as if you've shed years. And all these things are associated with sex.

You are probably aware of the basics of terrific sex, but let us suggest you a few aphrodisiacs which can add zing to your sex life.

Figs have been found to be brimming with minerals like magnesium, manganese and zinc and alsoVitamin E. All of them can do wonders to spice up your sex life.

The flashy-red watermelons contain a substance called citrulline, which sends the body the signals to release arginine, which relaxes blood vessels. This produces an effect similar to Viagra. And need we give you details about what Viagra does?

You've tried whiskly, you've tried wine but didn't feel the buzz. Pick a bottle of champagne and feel the difference. It enters the bloodstream faster than the wine does, so make sure you don't drink too much of it. Many champagnes have been found to have the same amount of antioxidants as red wine.

The Red Hot Chilli Peppers can bring out the hotness in you. They help recreate the symptoms of arousal: flushed cheeks, a quiver on your tongue, and more kissable lips. They also up the heat in the body.

Cheese releases 10 times more endorphins than the great ol' aphrodisiac - Chocolate. It will help you set the right mood.

Chocolate has been your trusted friend when it comes to having a great sex. You just need to maintain the bond. Its aphrodisiac property has been ascribed to two chemicals. One, tryptophan, which is the building block of serotonin, a brain chemical involved in sexual arousal. And two, phenyethylamine, a stimulant.

So the kind of food we gorge upon can do wonders with our sex life. Right food can make you positively sexual. (MensXP.com)

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Sex Tips for Women

By Great Sex Coach Cynthia Perkins, M.Ed.

Yep as the saying goes "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus." Where as men are very visual beings, women are very tactile and emotional. Men like meat and potatoes, women like the all the fixings on the side. If you want to give your woman great sex then being aware of her special needs is the essential first step. Follow these sex tips for women and you can't go wrong. If you're looking for tips to pleasure your man visit the sex tips for men page.

Sex Tips for Women - Foreplay

Women love to be touched and emotion is important for great sex. What is going on outside of the bedroom is just as important for a woman as what goes on inside the bedroom.

She is more attracted to a man who listens to her. If a woman feels listened to she will feel important and valued and her desire will be greater. One of the most important issues for a woman is to be heard. Being heard and feeling valued will increase her feelings of intimacy with her lover and enable her to be free and uninhibited in her lovemaking.

One the of the most important sex tips for women that men need to be aware of is that for the woman the path to orgasm is just as fulfilling as the orgasm itself and the path is also important for enhancing her orgasm experience.

A woman wants to be understood and feel important. Remember what she tells you about her life. Be interested in her life, not just her sexuality. Take an active interest in her what's going on in her life. She will want you more.

Women are excited visually as well, but they are excited by seeing passion, desire, love, sensuality and the look of desire on their lovers face or look of affection in their eyes.

Soft and gentle touching of as many parts of the body as possible elicits great passion for a woman. Take your time and savor her. Take the long meandering road to orgasm. Cherish and adore her body along the way.

Kisses are an important component for expanding your sex tips for womenknowledge base.. Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest turn ons. Looking into her eyes or touching her face while kissing her can increase arousal of the kiss. Kissing parts of the body such as the neck, belly, inner thighs, buttocks, pelvis area surrounding the vagina, fingers and maybe even feet for some people can heighten passion. Before licking or kissing between her legs it will be more satisfying to her if you kiss and nibble the other parts of her body surrounding her vagina. Don't just dive right in. Tease and entice her with your tongue.

Prior to love making time, hug your woman on a frequent basis, put your arm around her, hold her hand, tell her you love her. Women to like to hear "I love you" or something close to that. If it has not reached that point yet, then express your care for her, tell her how important she is to your life. Holding hands in an embracing , locking way during foreplay and lovemaking can be very arousing as well. It should be pretty clear by this point that many of the sex tips for women really have nothing to do with sex at all. It's about relationship and connection for the woman.

Sex Tips for Women - In the Bedroom

When you get her into the bedroom, the sex tips for women that are most effective are quite different than a mans. Tell her how good she tastes or smells and feels. How you love her pussy and how you love tomake love with her. Use language that is comfortable for her. If tits, cunt or fuck is offensive to her then she will be turned off. If it's a turn on for you then you should discuss this outside the bedroom prior to sex and find mutual words that are arousing or you could agree on taking turns on saying what the other one wants to hear. Find out what she prefers to call her anatomy and the sexual experience. There are different styles of language for different people. Some people may want to hear this: "I want to make loveto you," and another person may want to hear this: "I want to Fuck you" and another may want to hear: "I want you so bad". It is important to know which of these levels is exciting to your lover. Caress her with words.

Tell your woman you want to know what pleases her. You may have to coax her a bit to get her to tell you, but she will feel important and valued that you are interested. Pay attention to how she responds to each of your touches, kisses and movements and learn what she likes. Ask her to show you what satisfies her. Pay attention to cues such as facial expressions or moans of passion. Remember what she tells you and what you observe and give it to her regularly. It will be irritating if she has to tell you repeatedly. Both male and female lovers should learn what pleases the other and eventually know it like the back of their hand.

Enjoy your woman, be present in the here and now, be into what your doing at the moment, completely focused in the here and now, desiring her, passionately pursuing her. Seeing your passion and desire for her will turn her on and unleash her desire. Let her know how much you desire her with words or passionate actions. Let her know how much you want her.

Tease her a little bit by building up anticipation. Make love to her whole body, not just her vagina or breasts! Another one of the most important sex tips for women that I can share with you is this: "There is nothing that is a bigger turn off for a woman than a lover who immediately begins penetration without tending to her body."

Let out your sounds of pleasure. Moan, describe what you are feeling or tasting. This is very exciting for both partners. Men and women love to hear how you enjoy them. This can be especially arousing while giving them oral.

Become a master at oral pleasure. Most women are not able to orgasm by penetration alone. It is important for both partners to understand this so that neither one of you is feeling inadequate if it is not occurring. Penetration usually doesn't provide the necessary stimulation of the clitoris and G spot needed to orgasm. There are particular positions you can do to help this but by far one of the best ways for a woman to orgasm is orally.

Whereas the man wants to have his penis worshipped, the woman should be treated like Goddess. The whole woman, not just her sexual parts, and not only during lovemaking time, but in all aspects of the relationship. Make her special, cherished and valued and she will reward you quite nicely. Make her feel adored and wanted. Keep your woman feeling wanted, respected, desired, important and valued at all times and you will have a woman full of desire for you and you will heighten her sexual satisfaction greatly. She will also have a lot of willingness to satisfy your needs, because she is so attended to and satisfied. Keep in mind that some of the best sex tips for women really have nothing to do with technique or your penis.

Sex Tips for Women - After the Sex

After the love making it is important to stay with your partner both physically and emotionally for at least a period of time. You should not be jumping out of bed immediately after orgasm. Some holding and cuddling afterwards are necessary. This can be done in intimate silence or it is also good for you to tell her how wonderful it was or how good it felt or what was particularly enjoyable for you about her. Of course the woman should also express her experience to the male as well. This is also a good time for deep emotional sharing which will bring you closer together. If you don't get this aspect nailed down, then all other sex tips for women you have put into action will lose their power.

You can also continue enjoyable sensations by continuing to kiss and touch softly her neck, shoulders, thighs, face lips etc. Soft, gentle touching of the breasts or between and around the legs, but not with the intention of stimulation. Just enjoy the sensations and bask in the pleasure of the experience you have just shared.

Afterplay reinforces how a woman feels about the experience. If the sex is great, but there is no afterplay it will reinforce a negative experience for her and this will impact whether she will do it again or how receptive she will be to you the next time. How she perceives the experience will affect her desire for you. If reinforcement is positive she will see you as a good lover and her desire for your will be greater. Afterplay is just as important for the woman as is foreplay. It completes the act of lovemaking.

If your woman uses email on a regular basis, you may find that sending her erotic emails is another great way to keep passion and desire alive.

We are all very unique in regard to what feels good and satisfies us. Not all sex tips for women will work on every woman in the same way. If your partner tells you something that contradicts what I have said here, then always listen to them and follow their desires. Communication is the most important factor for sexual satisfaction and intimacy in a relationship

How to Lick Pussy Like a Pro

A lot of men think they know how to lick pussy, but I'm sorry to tell you that many of you are misinformed. You may be surprised to learn that a large number of the women who come to me for sex coaching are dissatisfied with their sex lives because their men do not know how to satisfy them sexually.

These women tell me their men just don't know how to touch them, stimulate them or make them aroused in the manner they desire. Unfortunately, a lot of women never even discuss this issue with their lover. They just suffer in silence or lose interest in sex all together. However, many women tell me that when they try and talk to their man about this issue that he gets defensive, he just doesn't listen or he fails to see how important it is.

Additionally, when I talk with men that come to me for sex coaching, I often hear from that they don't understand what they're doing wrong, or what it is their woman needs. They often don't know how to navigate around the woman's anatomy and frequently don't know where key pleasure spots are or if they know where they are, they don't know what kind of stimulation is most pleasurable.

This problem exists for three main reasons. One of the primary reasons is that men have not learned their oral sex skills from an appropriate source. Many men rely on cheap porn videos to learn how to be a lover and this is a big mistake. Porn videos are made to stimulate the man's mind, not the woman's. They portray images and scenarios that are satisfying to the man, but leave a lot to be desired for the woman. Unfortunately most of what you see in the typical skin flick is not a realistic portrayal of what a woman enjoys and needs to reach satisfying orgasms. In case you didn't know, the women in pornos are faking it. You aren't going to learn how to lick pussy in the manner that is most satisfying for your woman.

The second reason is that when his woman tells him he's not satisfying her, the man takes it personally and feels inadequate. His ego gets hurt. He refuses to acknowledge that he might not be doing it right and isn't willing to learn.

Lastly, another contributing factor is that many women are not aware of their own needs. They only know that something isn't working right, but they don't know what it is. They don't know how to fix it. Many women don't understand how their own body works in regard to sexual arousal or they're afraid or embarrassed to say it out loud or show you.

The great news is that there is a very simple solution to all these problems. All you need to do is learn how to lick pussy like a pro and they will all disappear magically. If you educate yourself about the woman's anatomy and sexual needs then it won't matter if she doesn't understand it herself, you won't have to watch videos that teach you the wrong thing, and she'll be so satisfied with your spectacular oral lovemaking that she won't be complaining and you'll never feel inadequate or have a bruised ego.

Take matters into your own hands or the mouth as the case may be. Learn how to lick pussy from a reliable source and become an expert in the craft.

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Three Pussy Licking Misconceptions

Three of the biggest misconceptions men hold in regard to licking pussy are in relation to the clitoris.

• Don't bite the clitoris. For most women, biting of the clitoris is not pleasurable.


• Don't suck the clitoris like a penis. A lot of men go after the clitoris in the manner that they like their penis sucked. This is not enjoyable for most women.


• Don't go straight for the clitoris. Many men think the clitoris is where it's all at, but that's not the case. Take your time getting there and stimulate all areas of the pussy.


• The most important point for men to know when learning how to lick pussy is that the clitoris requires special care and attention. You must know how to approach it in the proper manner or you may actually cause your woman discomfort. Develop the proper techniques and hone your skills carefully.

Additionally, you need to be aware that there is a lot more involved in bringing your woman to orgasm than just technique. Technique is essential, but there's a lot more to it than that. The woman is acomplicated animal and a wise man knows that it is in his best interest to understand her as thoroughly as possible.

Why Do You Need to Know How to Lick Pussy?

• You'll be perceived as a magnificent lover in your woman's eyes.


• It's the supreme way to give your woman sexual pleasure.


• Women have the most satisfying and intense orgasms through oral stimulation.


• Most women can't achieve orgasm through intercourse.


• When you give your woman exquisite pleasure and make her feel special, it increases her willingness to give you the oral sex that you desire so deeply.


• You'll keep your woman's sexual desires alive and vibrant. You won't be hearing "I'm too tired, or I have a headache."

Learn how to lick pussy proficiently and you'll leave her weak in the knees and aching for more each time. She'll think you're the best lover she's ever had and that's exactly what you can learn in Lick by Lick.

Discover all the tips, techniques, positions and secrets for not only how to lick pussy, but to give your woman absolute pleasure in every way.